Hello, young learners! Welcome back to our English class! Today, we’re going to talk about something very special, something that makes our lives brighter and happier. We’re going to talk about True Friends. Have you ever had a friend who makes you smile when you’re sad? Or someone who always plays with you, even when you’re not the best at the game? That’s a true friend!
What is a Friend?
Before we talk about true friends, let’s think about what a friend is. A friend is someone you like to spend time with. You can play with them, talk to them, and share your toys or snacks. Friends are like sunshine on a cloudy day. They make everything feel better.
Who is a True Friend?
Now, what makes a friend a true friend? A true friend is more than just someone you play with. A true friend is someone who is always there for you, no matter what. They are kind, honest, and they care about you. Let’s explore some of the special qualities of a true friend.
1. They are Kind
Kindness is like a warm hug for the heart. A true friend is always kind. This means they say nice things, they help you when you need it, and they don’t hurt your feelings on purpose.
- Example: Imagine you dropped your crayons and they scattered everywhere. A kind friend would help you pick them up, not laugh at you. They would say, "Don’t worry, I’ll help!"
2. They are Honest
Honesty is telling the truth, even when it’s a little difficult. A true friend is honest with you. This doesn’t mean they will say mean things, but they will tell you the truth in a nice way.
- Example: If you drew a picture and asked your friend if they liked it, an honest friend would say something like, "I like the colors you used! Maybe next time you can try drawing a happy sun too." They don’t just say "It’s good" if they don’t really think so, but they say it nicely.
3. They Care About You
A true friend cares about how you feel. If you are sad, they will try to cheer you up. If you are happy, they will be happy with you! They listen to you and they want to know what’s happening in your life.
- Example: If you tell your friend that you are scared of the dark, a caring friend might say, "It’s okay to be scared. I can hold your hand, or we can sing a song together to make it better."
4. They Share
Sharing is a big part of friendship. True friends are happy to share their toys, their snacks, and even their time with you. They don’t keep everything for themselves.
- Example: If you forgot your lunch at home, a true friend might offer you some of their sandwich. They know that sharing makes everyone feel good.
5. They Are Loyal
Loyalty means sticking by someone’s side, even when things are tough. A true friend is loyal. They won’t talk about you behind your back, and they will defend you if someone else is being mean.
- Example: If someone says something not nice about you, a loyal friend will say, "That’s not true! is a good friend!"
6. They Forgive
Sometimes, friends make mistakes. Maybe they accidentally bumped into you, or they said something they didn’t mean. A true friend knows how to forgive. They understand that everyone makes mistakes and they are willing to move past it.
- Example: If your friend accidentally breaks your favorite toy, and they say "I’m so sorry!", a true friend will say, "It’s okay. Accidents happen. Let’s try to fix it together."
7. They Make You Feel Good About Yourself
Being with a true friend should make you feel happy and confident. They believe in you and encourage you to try new things. They don’t make you feel small or silly.
- Example: If you are nervous about trying out for the school play, a true friend might say, "You can do it! You’re so good at singing, and you’ll be amazing on stage!"
Why are True Friends Important?
True friends are like precious gems. They make our lives so much richer. Here are some reasons why they are so important:
- They help us when we’re down: When we are sad or upset, a true friend is there to listen and comfort us. They can help us feel better and see things in a more positive light.
- They celebrate with us: When we achieve something, big or small, a true friend is the first one to cheer for us. Their happiness for our success makes our own joy even bigger.
- They teach us new things: Friends can teach us new games, new songs, or even new ways of thinking. Through playing and talking with friends, we learn and grow.
- They make us laugh: Laughter is the best medicine, and true friends are great at making us laugh! They share jokes, funny stories, and silly moments that fill our days with joy.
- They help us be brave: Sometimes, trying new things can be scary. A true friend can give us the courage to be brave and step out of our comfort zone.
- They help us learn about ourselves: When we interact with friends, we learn more about who we are. We discover what we like, what we’re good at, and how we can be a better person.
How to Be a True Friend
Being a true friend is not just about finding one, it’s also about being one! Here are some ways you can be a true friend to others:
- Be kind and polite: Always use "please" and "thank you." Help your friends when they need it.
- Listen carefully: When your friend is talking, really listen to what they are saying. Don’t interrupt or think about something else.
- Share your things: It’s nice to share your toys, snacks, and even your ideas.
- Be honest (but nice!): If you have something to say, say it truthfully, but always in a kind way.
- Apologize when you make a mistake: If you accidentally hurt your friend’s feelings, say "I’m sorry."
- Include others: If you see someone playing alone, invite them to join your game.
- Be patient: Sometimes friends need a little extra time or understanding.
Let’s Think About Our Friends
Now, let’s think about the friends we have. Can you think of a friend who is always kind to you? Maybe a friend who always shares their snacks? Or a friend who makes you laugh until your tummy hurts? These are wonderful people, and you are lucky to have them!
Remember, friendship is a two-way street. Just as you appreciate your true friends, they also appreciate you. So, always try to be the best friend you can be.
Activities to Practice Being a True Friend
Let’s try some fun activities to understand true friendship better!
Activity 1: "Friendship Flower"
Draw a big flower. In the center of the flower, write "My True Friend." Then, on each petal, write one quality of a true friend that we talked about, like "Kind," "Honest," "Caring," "Shares," "Loyal," "Forgives."
Activity 2: "What Would You Do?"
Imagine these situations and think about what a true friend would do:
- Your friend falls down and scrapes their knee. What do you do?
- Your friend is sad because they didn’t win the game. What do you say?
- You have a delicious cookie, and your friend looks hungry. What do you do?
- Your friend tells you a secret. What do you do with the secret?
Activity 3: "Friendship Drawing"
Draw a picture of you and your best friend doing something fun together. While you draw, think about why this person is a true friend to you.
Conclusion
So, young learners, true friends are a gift. They fill our lives with joy, support, and laughter. They help us grow and learn, and they make us feel loved. Always cherish your true friends, and always strive to be a true friend to others. Remember the qualities of a true friend: kindness, honesty, caring, sharing, loyalty, forgiveness, and making others feel good.
Keep these things in your heart, and you will always have wonderful friends by your side. Thank you for learning with me today! See you next time!